Straight Try Gay?

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You're a very open guy.  If you were not in a commited relationship with your girl friend,  why wouldn't you experiment with gay sexual activity?

Well, to be honest, for the most part, it’s because I’m just not interested in it.  Yes, sexual acts feel good, and perhaps a guy may be “better” at it because he’s a guy, so he knows what a guy likes.  But, I’ve never been dissatisfied with anything I’ve ever done with a girl.  And, I mean, everything I’ve done with a girl feels great, so I don’t really know if it would or could be any better with a guy.  And in certain areas, like with oral, I don’t really think I would be very good at it because I don’t really know how to give it, therefore I wouldn’t be any better than a girl.  And I think for the most part, its all about reaction.  You can judge what feels good to the other person by how they react.  Then you know if you should keep doing it, or move on to something else. 

So in the end, you get the desired result.  And no matter what, its going to feel good.  And I know you’re reading this thinking, “then why wouldn’t you try it with a guy if ‘no matter what it, it feels good?’”  Well, I feel I could ask the same thing to a gay person.  Why not try it with a girl?  I think it all comes down to what we’re attracted to more so than how it feels, or if someone can do it better than another.  A gay person doesn’t do it with women, because they’re not attracted to it.  I don’t do it with a guy, because I’m not attracted to it.  I have no interest in my gender; I don’t find it sexy.  I think it’s the same way with a person of our desired gender who we just don’t feel attracted to.  If I meet a girl who I don’t find attractive, I’m not going to want to do anything with them, because I find no interest in them; I don’t see anything as a turn-on.  I would assume that the same would go for a guy meeting a guy that he doesn’t find attractive.  I think it all boils down to whether or not we’re attracted to them more so than if they’re good at sex.  Plus, there’s the whole reciprocation thing.  So even if I were to get it from a guy, there’s no chance that I would return the favor, again, because I’m not interested in men.  I don’t see it as a turn on.